If you're happy and you're a child
Think of yourself as a child if you are happy and you know it, you want your loved one to care for your happiness. When it comes to children, people often do not think fully about the well-being of children - the concept seems advanced and distant - we often just think of how they can have fun, eat, study ... never mind. Even the expectation of the parents makes parents think the happiness of the child is the expectation of adults: to win the title of good student, good at English, or chess champion at all levels ... Please note That is what the children earn the happiness for parents and really, you know, this title is happy to whom?
The way you are doing to make your child happy: A mother trying to get her child into a preschool with modern preschool equipment, a dad looking for a suitable football club. We are looking for children to study in prestigious schools.
And you think it will make your child happy: It's not the way a father and mother want their children to be happy in a modern family. They are tired of searching for their personal happiness without thinking about their children, they have not really spent time thinking about the well-being of their children.
Once upon a time, when the happy children play, carefree TV, no internet, no traffic noisy, they are fun in the first bamboo village, with some buffaloes lying on the chewing "betel", the uncle. Barber, bargain, have a clerk ... and they play ball; Yes, their happiness and even now you are the happy and happy child who thinks again.
In today's environment, how can we regain the happiness of our children while there are so many temptations, demands, expectations? A big question for parents.
Do not worry, take a deep breath and they will look at the happiness of the children.
1. Eat on time, eat well
Indeed, punctuality helps children to be happy, not too hungry, but parents should think that the joy of the child, the happiness of the child will be complete when asked by parents themselves. Every meal, family meal happy. Do not let the little children's happiness lacks the integrity of the whole day to eat with the help of children, the joy of children, is the joy of the whole family.
2. Sleep appropriately
Many children are irritated, crying that we often poured at: spoiled children, or harassment ... you know this and we often poured in young.
Please take the courage to take care of yourself offline
When children are deprived of sleep, they become irritated, drowsy and slightly older. They also have reactions that are thought to be disabling, as a result of poor sleep quality.
Train your child to sleep on time, get enough sleep, sleep well so that children feel better.
3. Have fun
Children love to explore, the free play, no need to guide children to explore it that makes children very happy. It makes children feel that their own success and secrets.
Playing and playing free will be good for the soul of the child, carefully select toys and equipment toys to suit children. If your child is in preschool, do not hesitate to opt for pre-school equipment, kindergarten equipment and counseling from kindergartens.
4. Be allowed to express and express feelings
Children will scream when they are too angry, they cry when they are sad, they can stomp their feet when they feel insecure and sometimes they tend to care for you - let them show emotion.
When adults want to share emotions, they can find friends to share with, while children are different so we often care about and share with the younger.
5. Freedom of choice
Children are less likely to have control over their eating and entertainment needs. Let your child have a choice.
Look out for outfits, choose your own party, allow for menus and weekends ...
Let your children make their own choices, decide for themselves and to see how happy they are when they have the chance to do them and receive success.
6. Listen to the child - they feel respected
Be regular and spend time listening to your child's story, suggesting that he or she can talk to you on a daily basis, and that he or she will feel more confident and happy.
They will not be ignorant, dare to share success and even wrong. They will feel no longer alone in any job, and more confident in life.
7. Feel the love
Children who make mistakes will have negative actions if they do not feel love. A child who has a feeling of love from his or her family will act wiser and less extreme when faced with a difficult problem.
Let your children know that their parents always give them love and support. Encourage children to feel that their parents are always with them and take on the toughest jobs, they will be confident to overcome them.
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